Victim-Based Morality

I had an interesting concept come up in conversation a few weeks ago. I was talking with a fellow youth minister about the "bullying" situation in our schools and the "knee-jerk" reaction that seems to have followed it. Before I continue, make no mistake, in no way do I ever condone bullying. Bullying in any form is clearly against the love that Christ calls us to show to our fellow man. Period. But, as a society, have we reacted appropriately? Have we really responded to this problem correctly? By one set of standards, probably yes, we have. But by another, most likely no, we have not. A teenage boy struggling with homosexual feelings and with the bigger issue of gender/sexual identity is made fun of, persecuted, and perhaps even physically abused at school. What do we do? We educate our children on the values of tolerance, expand our textbooks and sex education to include the merits and "normalcy" of homosexual behavior, and, in gener...